— Part One
⚠ — This Warning Is for brother's while sister's own is coming up in 2nd Part)
.....A friend of mine (Pastor) was opportune to honour wedding ceremony of one of the senior Pastor in the ministry years ago.
The wedding was glorious, successful with many spiritual church leaders in attendant — The bride 👰 was also sparkling on her best outfit 👗 with smile blossom all over.
As I said, he is well renown senior Pastor in the ministry even till date — but unfortunately he might end up without having any children on Earth.
Fast — Forward ⏩ ....✍
Few weeks after his wedding, his lovely wedded wife called his attention and said "Sir, I don't think this marriage can work? 😲
After much persuasion, he discovered that his beautiful wife is at the edge of divorcing him.
This is a man who had served God for decades in the ministry from his youth — standing before the wedding chapel with his wife, vowed to love, cherished and never to sent asunder until death.
Now, waking up in the morning with News of divorcement...
Can you imagine, the intensity of the Heart Break 💔..painful and chaotic.
The ocean of anger and madness that floods the soul.
Where is God to allow something like this to happen to his faithful servant?
Why didn't God intervene?
This might be the questions going through your mind at the moment.
Anyway, Let Continue....✍
After awhile, the church got an information that the Pastor wife has ran 🏃 to meet her first lover — A Londoner who recently flee ✈ into the country after many years of separation.
This is a churchy sister!
— In every Church nights vigil she is always Present.
— In Prayer gathering you can't missed her Presence.
— In Midweeks Church Fellowships even the angels will definitely take notice of her.
— In Humility, submissiveness and modest appearances, she is First Class In Making.
— In beauty and spiritual life, she is epitome of Holy Ghost.
But unfortunately, she is presently on her way to Hell because of Marriage.
This thing called MARRIAGE, Eeeh, May God help us! 😥
As I always say "The Devil 😈 don't need to fight you consistently, he always knows where to capture you because he is perfect in Patient.
The Devil you know today isn't gonna be the same Devil you will comes across Tomorrow — He will definitely appear in different forms and strategies for counterattack.
You can bind him — unleashed Holy Ghost fire 🔥 and even exhaust all the Blood of the lamb 🐑 but you can't kill him.
He will always fast forward 🏃 and wait Patiently at that Marital Junction of Decisions to unleash his final blow.
Let Continue Our Story... ✍
However, it was later gathered that many spiritual leaders in the church has foreseen the future marital life of The Senior Pastor.
Many went to him with severe warnings never to marry the lady — God used them prophetically to reach out to the man of God but unfortunately he annulled all the warning signals and follow his Heart.
His story is like that of Prophet Zedekiah who smote Prophet Micaiah on the cheek, saying "When did the spirit of The Lord went from me to speak unto thee?
(1 Kings 22:24)
I believe you got the point am making ?
Alright, Let Me Digress... ✍
As many of you Pastor's, Prophets and great men of God in making, who are guilty of monopoly of God's ministrations
I mean, you thought that God can't used a small lad to pass information to you while he continue to maintain his silent over your prayers even after 7 days dry fasting 🤷♂
If he could hide his words from Elisha who has double anointing of Elijah and much more rich in anointing than today Mortal Men of God according to 2 Kings 4:27.
My beloved Ministers of God... How much you?
Let it be a lesson to everyone because God's isn't a respecter of anointing and his ways are pass finding.
That was how our Senior Pastor rebel against God ministrations and follow after his own personal conviction and today, he is still single but married.
He is Patiently waiting for the News of sudden Death of his wife so that he can break out from the marital oath he took and marital covenant that bound them together.
It's only death 💀can break such great Marital oath and Covenant and eventually free him to remarried or probably praying unto God to lured her heart back to him.
....and this warning goes out to everyone who is presently treading in journey of DIVORCEE.
My dear, divorcement doctrine is from the Pit of Hell — no amount of your moral or biblical knowledge's or philosophy can annulled the facts that Divorcement is a great Sin before the Lord.
Sin is a Sin despite the excuses you might present or how you paint it and that is why the devil knows that once you make mistakes on whom to marry... You are completely finished!
✋ WARNING TO EVERY BACHELOR'S:
Is better to be single @ 45 years expecting God for the right woman than to hastily get married to the wrong woman at @ 25 years.
Whenever the pressure of marriage overwhelmed a man, he can't hear God clearly.
Bro, you will agree with me that once you miss it in marriage, you miss it all here on earth 🌍, it's only if God show mercy.
An experience has shown that Prayer to God to correct wrong marriage is not easily answered — Some will live with the regret till they die.
As a brother, don't be carried away by beautiful pictures and social media statutes or updates of your fellow guys who are marry.
Please overcomed the pressure of getting married and proving to others you are now a family man.
In the church, after church dismissal, check around, you will definitely see some men still relaxing and waiting patiently before going.
Most of them Marry knife🔪 instead of Wife 👩 — They are Nursing their marriage instead of Nourishing.
My spiritual father while mentoring Me about marriage few years ago.
He said ....one of the day he visited one of his members and when he got to their door step, he kept hearing ...."foolish man, idiot, you are useless man, good for nothing man"
After some minutes, he knock and they quickly readjust in pretending style.
When the Pastor walk in. They greeted him with fake smiles ☺
So when my Spiritual Father got inside the room and Sat down,.. suddenly he started echoing ....."you are foolish man, wicked man, bastard and useless man"
( That man is Jovial Personality of his kind and every of my joviality is what I inherited from him ☺)
The couple were shocked and the wife replied "Haa, Pastor, so you heard our voice?
My brother, that is marriage for you Oooo
This couple, whenever you sight them in the morning walking to Church, you will think they just descended from Heaven and as a bachelor, you will be dying in envy not knowing what the man is facing in his marriage.
Bro, Please be Patient and Keep On waiting for the Appointed Time.
You must be spiritual or else you lose out because many of our sisters only get serious with God when it's time for marriage.
See, anyone that teaches you that you should marry someone you like, lie to you!
Yes I mean it!
Marriage is more of spiritual than physical.
Please if you are in any relationship that you NEVER HEARD GOD before you entered, PLEASE BREAK UP NOW!
"God will not follow you on a journey He didn't commission you to embark upon"
Anyone that teaches you that when you see a lady that please you or captured your heart, you should propose to her before consulting God....also lied to you!
They tell you to bring the lady to God and seek God's mind about it.......only seeking God to approve your own will.
Bro, God will not do that!
You need God in that Journey more than anyone.
Therefore before embarking on this Journey...... be a FRIEND OF GOD and be committed to God's work!
Some may ask "What about people that have done the mistake in marriage, what can they do?
My brother, It take only God's grace for a marriage on a wrong foundation to be rebuilt.
Bro, under No circumstances should you marry a sister that is not committed to God's work in his vineyard.
Yes, Adam was busy in the work assigned to him and he was given a helpmate "suitable" for him.
So my brother, if you are not committed to God works, don't expect God to give you a "helpmate".
Moreover, Adam was not the one who initiated the move for engagement with Eve but God (Gen. 2: 18 - 22).
Adam was busy resting in the Lord when God ministered to him.
Bro, why do you allow people to keep mounting pressure of marriage on you ahead of God?
He that commissioned you, knows your end from the beginning and only him knows the right person for you.
If that lady you are sighting now doesn't fit well.... it's either " Oversized " or "Undersized" and none of this is good for you.
See, there is different between working 🚧 for God and walking 🚶 with God.
Many People working in church nowadays are just doing activities or showing their talents.
If you hear what most of them are doing outside the church you will be amazed.
"Walking with God is better because it involved secret relationship with God.
Those that are sitting in church may have assignments they are doing in church like secrets intercessors, secret kingdom financia, secret evangelism.
So get busy with things of God!
Bro, before you can propose to a sister, you must be sure of what you are about to do...don't go and proposed to a lady and after two month you start finding some fault in her ...
....don't break someone daughter heart ...Bikono 🙏
Before you proposed to a sister, you must have received confirmation from God, either by Revelation or from His words, one way of the other — you must received confirmation from God because it is your life ....you are the CEO of your life.
You will see some sisters writing names to pastor to help them about prayers while they will be eating and sleeping, nor fasting or prayers.
Food bulldozer's and sleep Bulldozer's and some pastor will choice randomly without even praying.
And as a carnal brother, if such pastor pick your name ....After some years, the woman will start blaming the Pastor all because you didn't pray, and patiently wait upon the Lord for his response before proposing to an innocent lady.
Now Listen To Me.... ✍
Pastor revelation to you should be a confirmation of what God had already showed you about the sister.
Even unbelievers at times consult the Oracle to confirm if the person is the right one.
So if God is not the one that is leading you to that sister.. . please drop her NOW!
Don't you know that most of the Sisters in the Church today are possessed with Marine spirits, especially sisters with good voice — heart filled with sexual immoralities and phones cumbered with pornography.
They only have beauty and gift 🛍 but Fruit 🍇of the Spirit is absent
Once you marry them, no matter the fire 🔥 you carry they will bring it down.
See Brother...... This is a secret 🙄
All that glitters are not Gold !
Before you take her to the Altar, please take her to program where fire 🔥 of Holy Ghost is present.
Let fire 🔥 pass through her and you will know who she is.
Any sister that will not want to follow you to a prayer program....She is a suspect — Probably she did not want her secret to be revealed.
Sister's that introduce many friends will still introduce man's friend to you after wedding.
Many sister we are calling rose 🌹 are sincerely weed and thorns in the flesh.
While some of you brothers we see as saviour are only flavour looking for an innocent sister to devour In marriage.
Bro, this article is mostly for you... Please repent from wicked ways of life.
— Stand in truth & fear of God and stop messing up our sisters with demand for sex before marriage.
— Be honest with them about your intention in marriage and stop breaking their heart.
— Be Straightforward and be a mentor to her.
— Be caring and annulled stinginess.
— Be spiritually committed and teach her more about God.
I have received many complains from sister's about your wicked lifestyles and some Has even vowed never To marry a Pastor because of lack of sexual purity.
What a Taboo!
Jumping and distributing marriage proposal to different ladies even when you know God had not lead you...and after awhile you break up and you left the innocent element in emotional pain and trauma.
If she is your blood sister How will you feel?
Honestly, if any dare attempt such wickedness with sister or daughter, I will used dry fasting and prayers send you to an early grave.
Bro, that is Wicked of highest order... And God will definitely punished You in his own way. Please repent.. Bikono 🙏
....and tomorrow, if you find yourself in wrong marriage with a knife 🔪 instead of wife 👩...Please always remember, it's your reward because God isn't mocked.
The case of this Senior Pastor who got entangled wrongly in marriage... It's only him can attest if he has once messed up with someone Daughter before his genuine repentance.
The issue is that... No matter what evil or abominations you wrought at this moment or in the past... The reward of your sin will definitely locates you.
One way or the other, God will definitely punished you...
Look at some great men of God today!
After many years in marriage without conception, not forgetting the abortion they once lured an innocent lady to commit about 10-15 years ago 😔
My brother, God will definitely forgives you of your sins but the mother Earth 🌍, will never forget and your past sin shall be revisited and find you out someday.
Lastly, if you wanna get it right in marriage,
1. Ceased from fornication, pornography and masturbation because it always attract spiritual wife.
2. Seek God's face before tendering proposal and God won't answer you if you are not living righteously.... Please don't forget that!
3. Once she accepts your proposal, stand by her and overlook her flaws and help her to grow in grace and spirit.
4. Maintain emotional boundaries which will help to uphold sexual Purity.
5. Strategies what I called "Courtship Fellowships" — Ask her to pick two days in a week, where she will be opportune to minister the word of God to you ...and the same goes to you.
I mean, be a spiritual shoulder to her, trained her spiritually because relationship isn't always about, " I LOVE YOU.. I MISS YOU" but rather helping to built and develop one another.
⚠ — This Warning Is for brother's while sister's own is coming up in 2n
Comments
Post a Comment